Tuesday, May 5, 2015

An Open Letter to My Fellow Cam Girls....

So, I'm having one of those "You probably think this song is about you, don't you!" moments.  Like, I feel like someone is" throwing shade". I'm sure they aren't, I mean I hope they aren't. And it's one of my close cam friends. So, let's just think of this as a lesson in industry friendships of the non-sexual nature. 

I'm not really one to jump to these kinds of conclusions and I'm sure it's more of an attention seeking thing. But let me remind you ladies, if you want to have relationships with other girls in the industry, be open, honest and communicative. Not catty or shady. Customers would rather see you being positive and happy anyway. I understand needing attention, advice, support, WHATEVER, but there are ways to go about it that don't involve the old "poor me, my life is terrible" tactics. And most of us that have been camming long enough KNOW that those tactics don't work unless it's actually an emergency (who woulda thunk?). I also understand airing grievances, Pro-Tip: Twitter isn't the place to do it. Twitter's DMing service works GREAT! Use it some time. Use it if you need attention too! There are plenty of fans that I bet would LOVE a DM even if it's about how X, Y & Z are bothering you. And for that matter, the moment you get on a soap box, publicly, about some asinine bullshit you're going to lose followers and fans, seriously ladies, it ain't worth it! It hurts me because, my non-industry friends don't act like that. I specifically do NOT surround myself with the kinds of people that pull that shit.  And I expect more out of you women.  Generalized shade hurts too. If you believe yourself to be above doing something, then just be. Don't go around quantifying, that's a quick way to a very immature place. Now that I filled your pretty little heads with some Twitter etiquette, STEP YO GAME UP & SEX YO FRAME UP LADIES. That is all. 
Your Friendly Neighborhood Camgirl,
Geisha Monroe